He wanted our kids exposed to Christianity for intellectual reasons and likes the community.
A few years ago I ended up in a wheelchair. It has been very difficult to reconcile our two expectations, hopes and dreams.
She hasn't submitted the paperwork yet but I have no doubt that she will do this eventually. Some exceptions and valid reasons do exist for divorce but self righteousness is not on of them.
Like you, I didn't marry for the paycheck wouldn't have done me any good.